Pole Dance Attitude Adjustment
Language
There are a few words I’ve been hearing too much lately in the pole dance community. Words like “my,” and “copy,” and “stole.”
Words used in ludicrous little sentences like, “That new dancer is stealing my moves!” Or, “That’s my combo – she is totally copying me!”
Reality Check
I have never heard this kind of thing in other dance styles – at least, not unless, a day before your big opening, your choreographed company performance has just been done, down to the very last step, by somebody else.
You don’t hear ballet dancers complaining someone is dancing “their” role in Swan Lake. You don’t hear belly dancers bitch that some young upstart is copying “their” hip shimmy.
You don’t hear it, because it’s nonsense.
Every dance style is based on a set of moves that everyone learns – no individual dancer owns it. Even if a dancer combines steps into a signature style, they still don’t own the moves.
Time to Grow Up
When you’re in a club, you’re in a small space with a finite number of customers and you are making your living with your dance. In that situation, it makes sense that you wouldn’t want someone coming in and copying every move you make.
But that attitude makes no sense outside of a club.
I’ve been to a ton of belly dance performances, and 90% of the moves used were seen in every single dance. Every dancer did a three-quarter shimmy, every dancer did a Basic Egyptian.
But none of the performances seemed the same. And no one felt that they had spent an entire evening seeing the same moves over and over – even though they had.
So, what do they know that pole dancers need to learn?
You Are More Than Your Moves.
Pole dancers have gotten overly-focused on moves. You can learn every move in the world, combine them in the most death-defying ways, but that is not what will set you apart.
The only thing that will set you apart is your interpretation. Your expression. That is what you bring to your dance – and that is the only thing that you can really call your own.
If you are being you and expressing that in your dance, then that is what makes you unique and that is something that cannot be stolen.
Welcome to the Big Leagues
Pole dancers need to wake up and realize our dance is changing; it’s evolving. And our attitude needs to evolve with it.
Rather than compete with one another and guard our moves, we need to develop our individual styles such that no one can compare to us.
We need to work on creating a dance personality so unique that no one can touch it, so personal that, even if someone else dances the exact same choreography, it just won’t feel the same.
That is the moment when we become dancers.
And until then, it is what we need to be striving for.
Tags: Pole Dance, Pole Dancing
November
2, 2009 - Posted by PoleSkivvies 16 Comments
Filed under: Jennifer's Rants


16 Comments
Amber
November 2nd, 2009 at 11:33 am
I like this post, Karol and I talked about that this weekend. For competition, I try to pick moves that I don’t think others will do but in the end there will always be overlap and the goal is just to do it in your own special way, with your own flare. Everyone can and probably will do a scorpio, it’s how you execute it that matters.
Blume Bauer
November 2nd, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Great post!! What a great reminder to us belly dancers as well. You are so right on. I will hear an inexperienced dancer claim they own the idea of having an event or handing out fliers, etc. And guess what?! Those things were created by marketing gurus dozens of years ago. These days, no one is reinventing the wheel (really), they are just changing it up, giving it their own style, giving it character.
Thanks for the post!
svarri
November 5th, 2009 at 8:57 am
Ha! This is a really difficult one. There’s a sequence of moves I do that I sort of feel like I own. When I hear someone else can do it or tries to learn it, it feels odd. If something’s unique to you it’s something you may feel a bit annoyed when someone else does it.
But then, I’d be an utter hypocrite. I copy combinations that I see on youtube all the time. I guess it shows I admire what other dancers are doing and by using am honouring their inventiveness.
I sometimes feel that there are moves that are in fashion at different times (at the moment it seems to be spatchcock – but very few people can do it) and everyone tries to do them. Then it really boils down to your overall performanc. Because ultimately, when everyone does the same thing it’s really how you present it all and whether you’re enjoying your performance that makes the difference.
Sorry for the long comment – It’s quite an interesting topic!
Mary Ellyn Weissman
November 5th, 2009 at 11:08 am
Jennifer this article is absolutely on target! No one owns a movement – this has been proven (in courts) and is the standard in every form of not only dance but fitness.
I also get frustrated with people who post on youtube and then get upset that others try to do their moves. To me that says they are just out there to “show off”
You never hear people like Jenyne and Felix say someone stole their move either.
If we want the same respect as other forms of dance and fitness then we have to act like it rather than talking about each other behind backs in the schoolyard!
Blume Bauer
November 5th, 2009 at 1:12 pm
Svarri, I’m interested in why you feel ownership over a sequence of moves. I’ve been trying to resolve this issue with someone I know personally and can’t quite understand her position on the subject. Are they moves that no one has ever done before you did them? Are they completely original? Just curious about where the feelings of ownership come from.
PoleSkivvies
November 5th, 2009 at 8:05 pm
The more people get into pole dancing, the more everyone will be doing everyone’s moves. The thing that sets you apart is your style, your presence. Which doesn’t mean I don’t get what it feels like to come up with something that is your hallmark and see someone else do it. The only way I know how to deal with such things is to think of it as a personal challenge – how can I make my dancing more my own? How can I set myself apart, no matter what the other dancers do?
georgiamarie
November 6th, 2009 at 1:46 am
“We need to work on creating a dance personality so unique that no one can touch it, so personal that, even if someone else dances the exact same choreography, it just won’t feel the same.
That is the moment when we become dancers.”
WOO! That was perfectly said! Bravo!
I take classes in jazz, disco, dancehall, hip hop, salsa and even though I’m an absolute beginner, and could never be considered a ‘jazz dancer’ or anything like that — those movements all mix and mesh together to create my dance style.
I teach pole dance and I cannot say that I have ever felt someone danced the same way I do, even after copying my routine step by step. (Not because I’m bigheaded, I just mean, we all bring to it our own little style. Which is the way it should be.)
svarri
November 6th, 2009 at 5:54 am
The reason I felt like I have some claim on the combination (rather than the individual moves) is as far as I’m aware no-one else had tried it before (it’s a bit counter-intuitive). I suppose it’s the fact you put thought and effort – a long process into it and then everyone can suddenly do it =)
I think it’s more of an issue if you do competitions. Everyone’s looking for something that makes them stand out.
It’s a feeling that’s easy to feel. I don’t endorse it; just noting why it can happen. It’s silly for me to be annoyed, because loads of people could easily be annoyed with me for the same reason!
PoleSkivvies
November 6th, 2009 at 8:54 am
@svarri – If you are putting moves together in a counter-intuitive way, I’m guessing your style is one of surprise, no matter what moves you’re doing. And, to me, that would be the essence of what makes it yours.
Blume Bauer
November 6th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
I understand now what you are saying Svarri. And I can imagine that during competition it feels, well, more competitive. But I had to learn a long time ago as a dancer that it is flattering to have someone copy my moves step for step, rather than stealing or meanness. If someone loves something I do so much that they want to do it too, I feel super proud that what I did touched someone else. Oh, and another thing that I tell myself to remember is to stay ahead of the curve! Once everyone is doing that special combo of moves, come up with a new one and blow everyone’s socks off!
svarri
November 10th, 2009 at 10:41 am
The thing is I really enjoy coming up with stuff and am really flattered when someone does ask me to help them learn something I’ve put together (I enjoy seeing people get things). If I wasn’t doing competitions I’d be a lot more relaxed. It’s quite tiring to come up with stuff under pressure. It’s just the nature of competitions =(
Blume Bauer
November 10th, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Yes, Svarri, I completely understand. I did one dance competition years ago and vowed that I will never do another competition again, lol. It was so stressful and one of the most unhappy performances of my life. It wasn’t the lack of winning that made the performance feel awful, but more the stress and worry. I give huge kudos to performers who can get the courage to compete multiple times.
Kira Morris
January 1st, 2010 at 12:49 pm
I’ve been a dancer and performer my entire life and couldn’t agree more! It’s all about creating your own individual style. Movement vocabulary is universal but artistry and individual expression are not. I can watch 2 people perform the exact same trick but the person who wows me is the one that performs it with passion & intention; the person who moves because they’re inspired. Even the most death-defying tricks can be boring to watch. It’s all in the artistry. No one can “steal” your personality or your personal form of self-expression. That’s the difference between a trixter and a dancer or a trixter and an artist.
Kira Morris
January 1st, 2010 at 12:58 pm
@Svarri who said, “I think it’s more of an issue if you do competitions. Everyone’s looking for something that makes them stand out.”
I’m sure that creating unique routines for competitions is stressful and that you want nothing more than to stand out. But remember, judges are often looking form more than just tricks. Judges are looking for artistry, transitions, clean lines, flexibility, a well-balanced routine of climbing, spinning, inversions, DANCE, floor-work etc. Judges are looking for you to tell a story through movement. It’s about artistic expression. Your performance should “move” an audience. We should feel something.
Good luck with future competitions!
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