What Everybody Ought to Know
About Sexy Dancing

Sexy dancing isn’t what you think

This is the final post in the Countdown to Valentine’s Day series. So far, we’ve talked about the nuances of masturbation in sexy dancing, the use of the tease, and the rules and ramifications of successful hair flipping.

Today, though, we bring it all together. Today, you learn what really makes a dance sexy – and it’s not what you think.

It’s not a perfect body. It’s not a gorgeous face. It’s not perfect clothing or a gymnast’s flexibility.

Nope. None of that is what you need to make your dancing hot.

The Secret Ingredient

The one thing and one thing only that makes dancing sexy is you. Not just you being there, but you being fully present in your body, and delighting in the thrill of your own sexiness.

When you can put yourself into your dance – your heart, your soul, your passion – you will instantly make your dancing one hundred percent sexier.

Why does this work?

Most of what we are taught to think of as sexy, is really just an imitation of a woman being sexually aroused. So, if you are dancing in a way that actually connects you to your real feelings of sexual desire, you are automatically hotter than anything else out there – just by merit of the fact that you are being authentic.

Real desire, real arousal are sexier than any photoshopped thing out there.

So remember, ladies, you are the secret ingredient – and don’t ever let yourself forget it.

Own your sexiness

Sexual allure begins with enjoying your own beauty. So, before you dance, always take a moment to remind yourself of all the things that are sexy about you.

Maybe your smile would rival Marilyn Monroe’s. Maybe you have incredible ankles. Maybe you have voluptuous hips or a twinkle in your eye that makes men line up at your door.

Whatever you love about you, whatever your special someone loves about you, find it. Think about it. Delight in it.

Every woman is sexy and every woman has her own unique allure. The trick is to find that in yourself and let yourself believe it.

Give into your desire

Dancing is movement, it’s motion. So the next step is getting that mental awareness of your own sexiness to flow into your body.

Let yourself start to move within your feelings of sexiness.

Let your hips sway and rock, let your body move in a way that gives you pleasure. The more you enjoy the movement, the more enjoyable the movement will be to watch.

Remember when we talked about touching yourself when you dance? (Here’s that link again, if you need it.) Well, that’s really what we’re talking about here. Touching yourself is hot because it looks like you’re getting in the mood. So just imagine how much hotter it will be if you actually are getting in the mood.

So feel the pleasure of your body. Feel the deliciousness of your flesh. That’s the source of all sexuality – and that’s where you will find the heat for your sexiest, most tantalizing dance yet.

Valentine’s Day 911

With Valentine’s Day fast approaching, I know a lot of you are going to be planning a sexy dance for your own special someone.

For some of you, it’s going to be the first time you’ve ever planned something like this, and you are going to find you have some questions.

Like, you can only think of two sexy moves – how do you make them last throughout an entire song?

Or, you’re super shy – how do you make that work for you?

So, for all of you having last-minute freak-outs about your Valentine dance, here’s a special deal just for you:

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And have a VERY happy, sexy, and wonderful Valentine’s Day!

Tags: Pole Dance, Pole Dancing

February 8, 2010 - Posted by PoleSkivvies No Comments
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